I had this guy friend (whom shall remain nameless) you can call him Cookie. I spoke to Cookie from time to time as I tend to do will old friends, no harm right? All we ever talked about was how life was going for each of us. During one of conversation I come to find out how much of a man whore he is. I mean I could care less, it's his life and has nothing to do with me but with a life like that comes drama. Something I loathe by the way and do my damnest to stay away from. So whatever he's my friend, I don't judge.. So in another phone call I find out he is sleeping with a person I once knew. Again, I don't care but when this hooker goes out of her way to interfere with my friendship with Cookie then the story changes. Really how insecure does a woman have to be to try and I emphasise the word TRY to aggravate me. Totally going off topic. In another phone call this guy with out directly saying he thinks he has a chance with me and can make me stray away from my husband. Here comes the As IF..
AS IF Id cheat on my husband with a man that doesn't have shit to show for his life.. Why you ask? Make a list? I'm glad you ask and here it is.
1. He doesn't have a job..
(Like I'd want a man on the side that I'd have to take care of. I have two kids I don't need another one. Total down grade.. As If!!)
2. He lives with Mommy..
(I'm not knocking it in a sense because I know some people have to for many reasons but his was just laziness.. As If!!)
3. Man Whore..
(Like I want to walk around with an itch I can never seem to get rid of.. As If!!)
4. Druggie to Boot..
(If you smoke for fun or relieve stress from time to time by all means smoke on but if your life revolves around it, seriously? Ah, I think not.. As If!!)
5. A Total Thug..
(If you in and out if jail you have some serious problems. I understand that mistakes happen but if you don't learn from them where the hell are you headed but down.. As If!!)
6. His Hoe's Get in the Mix..
(When I am friends with someone it's with them not their leg spread-ies. I neither like or engaged in drama from them which with him it came.. As If!!)
7. Doesn't Care about Shit but Himself..
(Not that I am anything special to him but when two of your friends aren't getting along you try to ease the tension not create more and play games.. I mean really what kind of man brags about who he is sleeping with. He doesn't care about her enough that he's just telling me their business.. Totally making her look like filth. I gotta say though she is..
Now Answer me this. What about this man boy do you find sexy or attractive? Haha I certainly can not find one trait about him that would make me think that.. So I told him there was no way in hell he'd have a chance with me on any level and boy did he sing another tune.. I could understand if I led him on but believe me I never did. I'm mean really I talked to him maybe once every couple of months. He constantly beg to see me and the answer was always no. Does that look like I was leading him on? I think not.. I get nothing out of lying so I never do.
In conclusion I'd never in any life time give this Man Boy the time of day in my heart or in my bed. So needless to say I ended this friendship but I do have to say I kinda feel sorry for him though because he let one of his leg spread-ies get between our friendship whose to say she won;t do the same to another one of his friends. He totally looks like her bitch.. Well he made his bed with trash in it and he has to lay in it..
:Word of advise, be careful who you give your number to.. (I'm glad I never gave him mine) Watch what you say because people with shittie lives tend to try to take as many people as possible down with them.
:Take friendship like a job
Application: Find out what you can..
Interview: Feel them out..
Probation: Test the waters of trust..
After that your green..
FYI: I am happily married to a Fantastic Man..
Until next time..
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